“Over the years I have done many programs and I learned something from most of them but truthfully, nothing comes close to what I've learned on this one! Cliché as it sounds, this is truly 'life-changing', as much as it is relationship-saving.”

Dawn C. (Nonprofit Executive Director)

“The principles, love and guidance you give, quite honestly blows my mind. Thanks doesn't cover it, Pete. I think I have done every personal development and spiritual program out there and this one surpasses them all!”

Leila B. (Personal Development Coach)

[My wife] and I feel so blessed to have found this program. I starting thinking about timelines after we talked yesterday.

“I honestly believe this is the only programme in the world that can teach you how to transform your life, your relationship and your family with true unconditional love, step by step.

This course has definitely led both of us to complete honesty with ourselves, and each other. The difficult times and painful conversations during this learning process wasn't always easy, but so worth it. It has led us to be able to give the gift of true forgiveness of all our past mistakes to each other...which has been the best gift I have ever given or received.

Learning and understanding how to truly give love "unconditionally" has given me a whole new outlook on life! Thank you so much for this amazing gift!"

Mike F. (Professional Musician)

"This really has been an eye opening journey that we are going on both separately and together. I feel as if everyday I'm learning something new about myself! To the new folks who are just beginning this journey I encourage you to stick with it, turn to each other not on each other. It can be raw, it's sometimes painful, it's emotional but in the end it's so worth it!! There's nothing more amazing than reconnecting with your partner."

Tina P. (Scientific Officer, Healthcare Industry)

"The effectiveness of this program is difficult to comprehend or express sometimes. I did not expect it to be so complete, and rounded. It is certainly not a "do once and put down" issue.

I find that, when a black mood hits - going onto the program and doing the next day's work releases the pressure, changes thinking.

I said on the Facebook group that this program is worth it's weight in gold. I think I should upgrade that to platinum.

Pete and Nikki's advice and comments are priceless, and the input from other people going through similar challenges just serves to reinforce what they say.

Great encouragement, always."

Phil C. (CEO, Architect)

"I can't thank you and Nikki enough for what you've done for us! I woke up at peace this morning caressing my husbands arm and "at peace" is an amazing way to start the day, so I had to share!! 

The knowledge that you've shared from your experience has truly helped save my marriage and I'll be forever thankful. I also hope that in a world lacking unconditional love this e-mail finds you & your family doing well, safe and happy."

Temi P. (Professional Singer)

"Honestly this is an email I never thought I’d write - ever.

We are HAPPY! I mean really, really happy. I really did think I was destined to live a sort of ‘limp’ happiness, one were a cloud of misery and resentment just hung over me for the rest of my life. But we've become the couple we were always meant to be. We are closer than we’ve ever been. We can talk openly with each other about anything now. 

And it was all down to this programme... it really only does take one person to take part and totally embrace it for it to work. For that, I’ll be forever grateful!"

Lorraine B. (Investment Banker, Retired)

"Pete, Thank you for this course, you're spot on!

We are so grateful for this course to have arrived at this critical understanding AND for the week 4 exercises that gave us the insight and root causes necessary to create an action plan for our v2.0 marriage that we are actually excited about.

We look forward to the continued learning and growth we hope to gain ( and work hard at together) from the remainder of this course.

 

I share this in hopes anyone struggling with immense hurt and raging anger and resentment like I was will have hope and faith that through this course healing and triumph from an affair tragedy IS actually possible! and for us as crazy as it sounds, we are grateful more than regretful for this affair event because it changed the diverging trajectory of our relationship and we are now hopeful that our marriage over the next 40 years will become the best years of our lives. 

( Pete is soo right! Just trust him, this course, this support group and the process!)"

Lucy G. (Chief Nursing Officer)

"Hi Pete, I was just reflecting on how far [my wife] and myself have come. I would never have predicted there was such a change to be made or even if two strong individuals could change but we have both changed 180 degrees.

We have found this journey so powerful, it not only has rebuilt the foundation of our relationship but has spilled over to our families, business and faith. For me personally the turning point has been the truth and making [my wife] number 1 priority in my life, for a person that has always put myself first in life putting [my wife] number one has changed the way I see the world and treat the people around me.

We both as individuals and as a couple have learned to deal with fear and communicate with each other, it has made momentous changes in our lives and we have learned to embrace love. We are both filling each other’s bottle and the effects are spilling over into the people around us, we are better individuals and truly a bonded couple.

We both wanted to thank you so much for your guidance keep up the good work!"

Craig B. (Head Teacher)

"Working with this program and understanding where we went wrong and why, finding unconditional love and with the support of this group, our relationship is now better than it has ever been ! 

We have been together since school (1978) and married since 1983. 

We talk, we laugh, we go on special outings. We are 'in love' again. I would not want to relive the last 13 months but the effort we have both put into our marriage has made us both so much happier."

Pia S. (Business Owner)

“My wife and I discovered Pete at probably the lowest point of our marriage, but I now look back on that time as being the turning point of our entire lives. My wife was clearly telling me how unloved she felt by the behaviours she was exhibiting and in my own unloved state I chose to feel hurt and angry.

Pete helped us see what we were doing to each other and that in trying to ‘get’ love from each other and elsewhere, we were only succeeding in driving the real thing away.

We have had to relearn our whole view of the world, of what people’s behaviours are telling us and how our own behaviour gives away our emptiness. It has created an amazing bond between my wife and I and it has been a completely life changing experience.”

Gary H. (Consultant Orthopaedic Surgeon)

“I’ve spent my whole life making money into my God. I see now that this was at the expense of my family. This course has been eye opening"

Rob D. (Entrepreneur)

"We were the perfect couple, that’s what everyone thought and we did too! My whole life was perfect. I was raised perfectly, or so I thought... until all the perfection exploded into little bits of years of pent up anger, victimhood and pain.

My husband had an affair and all my world crumbled.

I desperately tried to keep us together and it got worse as I tried helping him be accountable, still not trusting him, making sure my friends and family app was monitoring his every move. This behaviour was not building love and trust it was pushing him away.

I then connected with Pete and from the first moment I spoke with him and shared some of my drama, his calm and quiet conversation with me sparked hope. I felt no shame, guilt or fear. I liked feeling this way and wanted to know how to feel better.

We started our journey in finding what loving looks like my hurt, anger and heart healed. It now seems like a million years ago...There are moments that I just look up and am so grateful for finding the road to real happiness.

As I look back over the last couple of years I’m thankful for my journey, the hard and prickly bits, and now the joy and peace I feel is priceless. I’m grateful for the lifetime I have to grow and experience unconditionally loving my husband. "

Laura G. (Business Owner)

"Becoming aware of all this has hit the nail on the head for me. 

This is the missing piece that I’ve unknowingly been searching for all my life and I'm so grateful I found this course and you Pete.”

Duncan M. (Investment Banker)

“Thanks to what we’ve learned with you, we’ve been sharing a lot of words, thoughts and fun. Funny how this has brought a level of closeness to our relationship that we had been missing and it was right away. Of course we have much healing and rediscovery ahead but we can’t thank you enough”

Sharon  & Tom T. (Business Owner)

“This course is great! I had no idea that each time I am unloving to [my wife] I drain my own battery. It has been eye opening to learn that each time I am afraid or do something to just ‘feel better’ in the moment, I am draining my battery too. 

Thanks Pete”

Stephen A. (Senior Accountant, Telecommunications Industry)

“Pete, your words were so helpful. You were listening to me at ground zero. And your response was spot on. We are beginning to recover and find each other again and that’s entirely thanks to the information you've shared with us.”

Pauline Y. (Registered Nurse)

"My coaching experience with Pete was second to none. I admit, I was skeptical about any form of counselling or self exploration, it was simply foreign to me. Now I can say, hand on heart, that I’m so glad that I chose to work with him. My life and relationship have changed phenomenally! I feel happier than I ever have done, and my relationship with my partner has just bloomed! We actually WANT to spend time together now, in fact we can’t get enough of each other!

When I usually read testimonials, I think, ‘Yeah right, as if they didn’t write that themselves!’ I don’t want this to sound like that. When I say Pete has changed my life, I do not exaggerate & I stand by my word. Every day was a struggle in our relationship & I felt certain that it couldn’t be fixed. Pete helped me look at and our relationship from a different perspective. I learnt more about myself than I ever thought I could, I’ll take that knowledge with me for life. He taught me how to really love and value myself, and my partner."

Natalie B. (Airline Pilot)

I wish to give you a big thank you for your love, help and support this year Pete. I feel very grateful and blessed to have you in my life. I really appreciate the time and effort. You have put into me a lot of effort and it paid off. I'm so happy."

Lola W. (Planning Consultant, local government)

"I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the greatest gift anyone could have shared with me - unconditional love. You've restored my faith in humanity. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and teaching me how to live a life of freedom and happiness. I'll never forget the most precious gift you have brought into my life and marriage. I will continue to practice and treasure it forever."

Lucinda L. (Financial Analyst, Software Industry)

"My husband and I were just saying how we wish we had known all this years ago when our girls were young. They are now 27 and 29. I had no idea what unconditional love was until I found this programme, and wish every day I could have that time back with our girls and do it all over again with our new found knowledge. But we know we can pass on this to our daughters when the right time comes and hopefully we’ll be grandparents one day!"

Ann-Marie H. 

"Thanks Pete, you've been my rock through some pretty tough times. I'm happy to say I'm floating on much calmer waters nowadays because of what I've learned and I'm fundamentally changed as a person for the better. Our marriage is an entirely different and happier place to be now"

Fizz B. (Senior Pharmacist)

"Pete, in all your calls, emails, posts and communication you put so much thought into making sure other people are remaining solid, at peace and always have great things to say to us to keep us positive. I would like to tell you that we both truly appreciate the time and effort you spend with us, your presence in our lives has truly changed us forever."

Gerard P. (Director, Hospitality Industry)

“I'm grateful that I met my husband, I'm grateful that we've experienced what we've experienced together- especially the hard times. Why? Because it brought me to Pete & Nikki. It brought me to the awareness that I have so much more power than I ever believed, to make the changes in my life that can lead me to live a joyous and peaceful life.

I'm daring to believe I can be so much more than I've ever let myself be. I'm starting to like being me. “

Nancy H. (Founder & CEO, Software Industry)

“Over the years I have done many programs and I learned something from most of them but truthfully, nothing comes close to what I've learned on this one! Cliche as it sounds, this is truly 'life-changing', as much as it is relationship-saving. ”

Lana D. (Executive Director, Telecommunications)

"If someone told me 5 weeks ago where I’d be today, I just would not have believed you!

I have chosen to go thru this course myself. We started together, but my husband just wasn’t ready (by his own admission) but, you know, the darnedest thing has happened. As I have followed the course, unconsciously so has he! But, we are absolutely getting there in strides that I could have only dreamed of 2 weeks ago.

But most importantly, we simply would not be together at all if it wasn’t for the backbone of this course... it was never about me. It was about not having the tools to deal with what life throws at us. I would never have been able to cope continually thinking that the betrayal was a personal attack on me and we would have separated. I know this.

If it’s tough for you just now, hang in. It’s pretty good on the other side!"

Lily B. Retired Creative Director (Marketing industry)

“This journey is all about self discovery. The more you discover, the more things make sense. This gives you the knowledge and understanding about yourself to reveal the person from under the mask that you always really wanted to be, and actually have always been but have been hidden. You can then connect to your spouse in a truthful and loving way - better than ever before! The journey is already showing it’s well worth it.”

Phil C. (Chiropractor)

“This programme has taken us nearly a year to work through. In the beginning we did one module a week, then it slowed off as life changed.

We have taken our time to sit with the amazing lessons and work on ourselves. I am so glad we did.

It truly is life changing in all aspects of how we interact not only with each other but with our children and the wider world.”

Sylvia T. (Family Therapist)