THE AGONY & THE ECSTACY OF MARRIAGE!
From the outside, my marriage may have seemed flawless, but behind closed doors, it was a different story.
Nikki and I lived parallel lives. She headed up a Learning Support Department at a private girl's school while simultaneously privately tutoring pupils and raising our two teenagers. Meanwhile, I was building a Forensic Telecoms business ready for sale, so I was barely home and frequently away giving evidence in court as an expert witness.
We were like ships in the night, occasionally bumping into each other, full of expectations and resentments.
However, amidst the challenges we faced, we both made a powerful discovery: Our deepest pain often holds the key to our true purpose. It was during the aftermath of my own marital implosion that I realised the profound impact a struggling marriage can have on every facet of our lives.
The pain within my relationship, compounded by external stresses and conflicting priorities at work, became the catalyst for change as both Nikki and I worked tirelessly to rebuild what I thought was broken.
In the process, we unearthed something truly remarkable.
In the process, we unearthed something truly remarkable.
We discovered an author of a now obsolete report who shed light on the reasoin why ALL marriages fail and he became our mentor and helped us change our lives.
Later, motivated by our own awe-inspiring journey, I developed a passion for sharing these invaluable lessons with others. My mission became clear: to assist smart, yet struggling, couples in reclaiming their inner happiness and building thriving relationships that enhance every facet of their lives.
Enter Pete Uglow, a maestro in the realm of relationship wisdom. With a blend of humor and storytelling, metaphors that paint vivid pictures, and a touch of humility that makes you feel like you're chatting with an old friend, Pete has a unique gift. He doesn't just talk about making relationships extraordinary; he brings it down from the clouds and shows you how to infuse the magic into your everyday. In his hands, the extraordinary becomes not just a lofty goal but an attainable reality for every relationship. It's like having a seasoned guide who not only knows the path but walks it with you, making the journey delightful, relatable, and transformative.
Molly Jones (Relationship Therapist)
Over the past decade, I've helped over 1000 individuals save their marriage from the brink of divorce, reignite lost passion, and build an unshakeable partnership without sacrificing their own needs.
At the same time, I've seen thousands fail miserably, living through the agony of a marriage that erodes their self-worth and leaves them feeling trapped.
The difference between those who end up in a lifeless marriage and those who experience the ultimate, empowering partnership is an unwavering commitment to their own growth and recovery and implementation of unconditional love FIRST.
The successful individuals weren't luckier, didn't have a perfect spouse, and certainly didn't have a marriage free of challenges. The ONE quality that makes the difference is focusing on becoming the most vibrant, alive version of themselves. A version they recognise as being good enough and worthy of happiness.
People who prioritise their own healing, set clear standards, speak the truth, and inspire their partner through their own transformation go on to find incredible joy in their marriages.
Putting yourself first is crucial because without it, you lose yourself, tolerate the intolerable, and wake up realising you've sold out on your deepest values. It's a ticket to an unfulfilling marriage and an unlived life.
That's why I've built a system for quantum leaps in relationships with personal recovery and true unconditional love at its core. With radical self-care, you can go from secretly googling divorce lawyers to more in love than ever in as little as 90 days, without years of therapy and even if you've lost sight of who you are.
The difference between those who end up in a lifeless marriage and those who experience the ultimate, empowering partnership is an unwavering commitment to their own growth and recovery and implementation of unconditional love FIRST.
The successful individuals weren't luckier, didn't have a perfect spouse, and certainly didn't have a marriage free of challenges. The ONE quality that makes the difference is focusing on becoming the most vibrant, alive version of themselves. A version they recognise as being good enough and worthy of happiness.
People who prioritise their own healing, set clear standards, speak the truth, and inspire their partner through their own transformation go on to find incredible joy in their marriages.
Putting yourself first is crucial because without it, you lose yourself, tolerate the intolerable, and wake up realising you've sold out on your deepest values. It's a ticket to an unfulfilling marriage and an unlived life.
That's why I've built a system for quantum leaps in relationships with personal recovery and true unconditional love at its core. With radical self-care, you can go from secretly googling divorce lawyers to more in love than ever in as little as 90 days, without years of therapy and even if you've lost sight of who you are.
"WHEN THE HEAD UNDERSTANDS
THE HEART CAN FOLLOW"
But now let's get back to you....
We can unravel the layers of your story and identify what may be holding you back from having the relationship you really want.
Whatever your current situation, however big the crisis, even if your spouse isn't on board with doing any work, together we can unlock the secret to turning it all around and building your ultimate marriage.
Your story is unique, and I would be honoured to be a part of it.
Here are the ways of working with me:
1. Request a 3-day personal intervention with me at a location in Warwickshire followed by 3 months of 1:1 Zoom coaching support
This option is usually more suitable for those with limited time to devote to the recovery work, if they have a particularly urgent or difficult issue to deal with, or where one of the partners is often away on business, on tour, filming location etc.
I limit these interventions to just two couples per month so that I can give them everything they need to turn their marriage around quickly.
Book a call to see what can be arranged to fit in with your diary and mine.
2. Receive 3 or 6 months personal 1:1 online coaching with me. We can come up ith a personalised package to suit you. Book a call to explore this option.
3. COMING SOON... Join our 12 week online programme and enjoy 3 months of incredible group support, guidance and learning. You'll get online training to consume at your leisure (you'll be given lifetime access to this), and a community of people available to support you, plus access to me either by email or 1:1 Zoom.
Unfortunately, there will be a limit to the number of places available each month on this programme too because I want you to succeed and that takes my time and attention which is limited, obviously.
Book a call with me to see if you are a good fit for what I offer. (Also see the contact page)
3. COMING SOON... Join our 12 week online programme and enjoy 3 months of incredible group support, guidance and learning. You'll get online training to consume at your leisure (you'll be given lifetime access to this), and a community of people available to support you, plus access to me either by email or 1:1 Zoom.
Unfortunately, there will be a limit to the number of places available each month on this programme too because I want you to succeed and that takes my time and attention which is limited, obviously.
Book a call with me to see if you are a good fit for what I offer. (Also see the contact page)